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Part 2 of this Newsletter, Keeping Weight Loss Simple
Firstā¦
Before we dive into today's newsletter overview, I want to make something clear. I've identified three levels of weight loss: the surface, middle ground, and root. In this issue, we'll mostly cover the surface problems you can tackle to build momentum and consistency. We'll also briefly touch on the middle ground and root issues.
Weight Loss Blueprint Overview: In part one of the Weight Loss Blueprint, we'll dive into the following topics:
The Science of Weight Loss: Understanding why 95% of people who lose weight end up gaining it back, and then some.
Hormones and Their Role in Weight Issues: Exploring how hormones significantly impact our weight.
The BeGreatWithNate Weight Loss Approach: A holistic health perspective on losing weight.
Review of Questions from Our Last Newsletter: Addressing hunger and sugar cravings, along with sweating in your sleep
Weight loss: The Science āThe Surface The science behind weight loss seems straightforward: To lose weight, you must burn more calories than you consume. This principle is the first thing most health practitioners will tell you, and it's precisely where I often find myself at odds with them. Here's why.
Calories are simply units of energy. Your body needs this energy to function correctly. It takes a certain amount of energy for our bodies to perform basic functions like breathing, circulating blood, and producing cells. This energy requirement is known as the basal metabolic rate (BMR).
Beyond these basics, calories are also expended through physical activities, ranging from simple tasks like walking and standing to more vigorous exercises like running or weightlifting. Additionally, the process of digesting food itself burns calories, contributing to what is known as the thermic effect of food (TEF).Ā
To support overall health and meet energy needs, it's important to consume an adequate amount of calories that aligns with your body's demands, taking into account your age, sex, weight, height, and activity level.
Let's simplify how to understand calories' role in weight loss with an estimation technique that's generally quite accurate. To estimate your maintenance calories based on activity levels, you can multiply your current weight by:
13 if you don't exercise at all,
15 if you exercise a few times a week, or
18 if you exercise five days or more a week
Assuming you weigh 200 lbs and are sedentary (not exercising at all), you would calculate your maintenance calories as follows: 200 lbs x 13 = 2,600 calories per day to maintain your weight. If you're looking to lose weight, you'd aim to consume fewer calories than this estimated maintenance level, creating a caloric deficit, which leads to weight loss.
To lose weight, you can opt to either consume fewer calories or increase physical activity to burn more calories. It's important to understand that one pound of fat is equivalent to 3,500 calories. By reducing your caloric intake or increasing calorie burn by 500 calories per day for a week, you can expect to lose approximately one pound of fat.
So, where do I begin to bump heads with those to preach itās all about calories?Ā While a caloric deficit is indeed necessary for weight loss, it's not the underlying cause of weight gain. Consider this: if you're constantly hungry and fatigued, how realistic is it for you to maintain a caloric deficit or have the energy to engage in activities that burn more calories? It's important to address these fundamental issues for sustainable weight management. This brings us to the second section of this newsletterāhormones.
Weight Loss Blueprint ā Hormones: The Middle Ground
Now, let's delve into the BeGreatWithNate Approach, particularly focusing on hormones. Quick question: how many people do you know (yourself included) who suffer from hormonal imbalances along with chronic stress or trauma? hmmā¦
Trauma and stress both release the stress hormone cortisol, which is a key player in every hormonal imbalance.
Trauma, including childhood trauma and PTSD, leads to higher serum cortisol levels than those found in individuals without such experiences. Why is this an issue? Cortisol is intricately linked with two other significant hormones: adrenaline and INSULIN.
Insulin's role is to transport glucose (sugar) from our bloodstream into our cells to produce energy. However, the issue arises when cortisol levels are elevated, a common result of chronic stress or PTSD.
This elevation in cortisol can lead to increased blood sugar levels, prompting insulin to act swiftly to store this excess sugar. Consequently, your blood sugar levels drop, leading to an energy CRASH.
Given glucose is a crucial fuel for the brain, this drop triggers either cravings for sugarāresulting in snacking on junk food or seeking quick energy boostsāor it activates adrenaline to prime the HPA Axis and endocrine pathways, prompting the adrenal glands to release more cortisol.
This is what I call the Trifecta CycleāAdrenaline, Cortisol, and Insulin. An imbalance in any one of these hormonesācortisol, adrenaline, or insulinācan set off a domino effect that impacts the others, creating a relentless cycle of stress and blood sugar fluctuations. This cycle often results in heightened stress levels, fatigue, and weight problems.
Stress and trauma prompt the body to release adrenaline, a primary stress hormone, which interacts with the sympathetic nervous system. Following adrenaline, glucocorticoids such as cortisol are secreted, which, in turn, signal the liver to increase glucose production. These hormonal responses are part of the body's natural alarm system, preparing it for quick energy utilization and heightened awareness.Ā
Trauma is instantly stored in the mind (in the hippocampus) and the body (across five layers of energy), leading to a rewiring of neural pathways in the brain to anticipate future threats similar to the initial traumatic event. Chronic stress, meanwhile, becomes ingrained in our subconscious over time through repetition. Both create something I call a Sensitive Nervous System, one that overreacts to stress, even when it's minor.
Addressing calories in vs. calories out is not the top priority for individuals with a Sensitive Nervous System. Their heightened sensitivity state triggers the Trifecta CycleāAdrenaline, Cortisol, and Insulināmore rapidly, causing an overreaction to stress, carbohydrates, caffeine, and anything that stimulates any of the hormones within this cycle.
Let's revisit the concept of calories in vs. calories out for a moment. Imagine you've decided to reduce your calorie intake and exercise more. But then, suddenly, your blood sugar levels drop. This triggers your body's fight-or-flight response, releasing adrenaline and cortisol. These stress hormones work to get glucagon to release stored sugar, raising your blood sugar levels a bit. Now, ask yourself: is it easy to maintain a caloric deficit when you're feeling tired and hungry? Naaaa
Exposing the Unseen Cycle: Why My Clients' Best Intentions for Weight Loss and Health Are Met with Unexpected Challenges
Weight Loss Goal ā Calories In vs. Out ā Hunger + Fatigue ā Overeating + No Exercise ā Weight Gain ā Criticism (Laziness/Incorrect Calorie Counting) ā Self-Critique + Increased Effort and Spending ā Weight Fluctuation + Health Issues (PCOS, NAFLD, High Triglycerides, Visceral Fat, Diabetes) ā Worsened Cycle (More Fatigue + Hunger + Mental Health Concerns)
This sheds light on why 95% of individuals who go on diets and lose weight end up regaining all of it.
Now that we've delved into the unseen cycleāthe Trifecta Cycleāit's time to present a blueprint that can significantly impact your journey towards weight loss, improved energy, and better overall health.
I've assisted thousands of clients globally with this exact approach. However, don't just take my word for itāexperience its benefits firsthand. By implementing this formula, you can expect to stabilize your blood sugar, alleviate stress, minimize inflammation, and curb food cravings.
We have to make a quick deal though. You have to start tracking your weight from tomorrow until Monday (next newsletter) and update me in the comments down below. Deal? Ok, cool.
Now, follow this approach:
Download MyFitnessPal or Lose It.
Ignore calories for now; aim for at least 80 grams of protein a day (or higher).
Limit carbs to under 100 grams a dayāavoid starches, processed sugar, or grains. Opt for berries, green apples, leafy greens, avocados, and veggies.
Typically, the remaining calorie intake will naturally consist of nutritional fats.
Calculate your water intake: take your body weight, divide it by 2, and drink that number in ounces of water each day.
With 5 days until Monday, aim to go for at least 3 walks, lasting 45-60 minutes each.
That's it. Ha! I'm not diving into the reasons just yet. Why? Because I know how it goes. The more complex I make this, the less likely you are to follow throughāyou're already stressed out!
We're keeping it simple here; I've done all the thinking and problem-solving for you :) On Monday, I'll explain why we're taking this approach.
Hey, I have one more favor to ask. All I ask on this journey together is for you to be honestānot just with me, but also with yourself. We can't transform our minds, bodies, and emotions without honesty. Think about it this way:
The old version of you has habitsāsensations, feelings, thoughts, and perceptions. The new version we're aiming to becomeāyour New Selfāneeds to be wired into your subconscious, along with new sensations, feelings, and thoughts, gradually creating new perceptions.
Lying feeds the Old Self.
Truth feeds the New Self.
Now, I had some questions come in from my last newsletter. I chose these questions because they align with the SURFACE problems with weight loss, which are part of today's newsletter. For those who sent questions over regarding candida, memory, and brain damage from being with a narcissist, developing mental endurance, and handling difficult situations, these align with the Middle and Root levels of transformation. Be on the lookout as we continue this series. I got you:)
Question #1: I am 54 years on planet earth and have been fighting adrenal fatigue for decades and you connected all my issues so succinctly. Thank you I felt so seen. The content I would like from you is several dinner menus that will cause no sweating and better sleep. More about resistant starch.
Look up at Blue Man (Energy Crash Illustration). Do you see how stressed, tired, and upset he is when his blood sugar drops? This happens to occur while people are sleeping. When you eat a dinner thatās rich in high-glycemic carbohydrates and low in protein and dietary fats, your blood sugar will drop while sleeping.Ā
This drop can trigger the release of stress hormones (cortisol), which disrupt your sleep. Cortisol is also referred to as the wake-up hormone and is naturally highest in the morning to help us start the day. Melatonin is known as the sleep hormone, because it signals that it's time for rest. Ideally, when cortisol is high, melatonin should be low. When melatonin is high, then cortisol should be low.Ā
An imbalance between these two can disrupt our sleep patterns. My clients commonly experience sleep disturbances due to these hormone fluctuations. They might wake up between 1 and 4 in the morning, struggle to fall asleep, get up often during the night to urinate, or experience night sweats.Ā
Also, resistant starches are a nice way for those with a Sensitive Nervous System to incorporate some starches due to the carbs having a lower impact on blood sugar. However, if one has a fungal infection (candida) or dysbiosis, be careful. Resistant starches are great prebiotics, food for the microbiome, but when one has an imbalance like dysbiosis, they can experience gas and bloating with resistant starch.
Follow the BeGreatWithNate Approach and track your sleep for the next five days. Letās see if it improves :)
Question #2: I want to know about food noise. Why do I have that in my head and how can I stop it.Ā I did Wegovy and lost 40 the first year. Almost completely eliminated food noise, the obsessive thoughts about eating and food. Food noise is the hardest to overcome for me. Iād like to know more because obviously my brain is getting hunger cues that shouldnāt be there.
Ok, food noise. Whoa, I can go deep on this, but letās do this one level at a time:
The Surface: Step one, follow the approach above. Hereās why. Wherever the body is dehydrated, lacking protein in the diet, and has blood sugar fluctuations from the Trifecta Cycle, your brain will demand food, especially sugar.
The Middle Ground: Do you have trauma? What did you do anytime you were stressed or scared as a child? How did you make yourself feel better? Was it with food? If so, this is the Old Self subconsciously responding to stress. When was the last time you did something that made you happy (outside of food)? What do you do when you're bored? Of course, I will have more ways to coach you on this if we were talking, but with this question, this is a common chain reaction I find with clientsāI could be wrong with you, but many of those who are reading this will find a connection.
Root Ground: Ok, I will keep it light here because we have more work to do with the surface in these first newsletters, but here we go. Is your time, energy, and brainpower being used to help others and not yourself? Is your money being spent compulsively? Are you giving others money without shame, but when it comes to spending money on yourself, you suffer with shame and guilt?
Is your psyche bombarding you with dreams, fancies, and symbolic reminders about your Purpose in life?! Meditate on this :) I will reconnect to this when it comes to weight issues, but my Friday newsletter The One Percenter will be covering all this good info!
Whoa, okay, we made it here. Do you like this new style of newsletters? I know itās Wednesday night, but I made a promise I would shoot over part one of the weight loss series as soon as I got Substack up and running.
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Itās always a Great day to be you; you know that!
BeGreatWithNate
You are God sent! Love the new format. We need to hear more of your work out there in multiple languages. I'd love to work with you on Spanish content as well as my project in support of U.N. Women and Latino men conference. Thank you for all the knowledge you share!!
Thank you Nate! I am looking forward to learning more from your newsletters !! I have so many questions and thoughts but I feel like that would be too much for here š